I really don't know why my 笑点 became that LOW these days. I laugh for the most stupid things and least funny joke. After I realise that it is not even funny, I'll still continue laughing. But actually, laughing should be good for health... just as long not so exaggerated till you get asthma, or get wrinkles... LOL. Eating lunch with LS and YN really makes my day... Because their 梗 will just make me laugh non-stop... Although they always don't get mine... HAHA...
These days, I realise something... Many of the things can only be done with the world ''mutual''...
For example -
:To enjoy lunch with a person, 2 of them must be mutual, and really enjoy talking to each other...
: To exchange 心事, A must be willing to listen or talk to B, vice versa... If B only wanna find A to talk about his troubles, but is not really interested to hear out A's troubles... there is really no point.. and it is only when B finds A to tell his troubles, A will be more willing to share his troubles with B too...
Wow... am I even making sense?
I really think.. to lend a listening ear to someone is very important. But of course we shouldn't 敷衍 people (although sometimes I do if I'm too tired to pay attention)... It might not be neccessary to give advice but at least we should at least pay attention or give a signal that you are really interested... If you only enjoy telling people but not listening, you're just being a little self-centred... Only when there's mutual ''telling' and 'listening', there will be 'mutual understanding'.... Therefore, friendship can be lasting...
I'm not saying these cos I think I'm a good listener... there's room to improve on that myself for the sake of people around me... but I hope whenever I need them, they'll be there too... and I know my closest friends will..
Friday, October 10, 2008 tagged by mrs xie.. 20 random facts about me.
♥ i'm jealous of angel, stitch's gf. ♥ 脑袋装了没有用的东东。 ♥ i want a nephew first then niece. ♥ love love love ice-cream, peppermint & peppermint ice cream. ♥ i don't really know how to handle kids, esp aged 3-10? I don't how to sweet talk with them! ♥ 笑点很低。 ♥ 容易觉得尴尬。 ♥ proud that i can complete a nds game in japanese, although i dun read japanese. ♥ something against government hospitals. send me to mount e if i faint in front of you. ♥ my mother is very very paranoid too! high five, ning. 很喜欢想很多！妈妈真的都一样。 ♥ think my dad is super funny. ♥ my ipod has very random songs like 费玉清 and beethoven's. ♥ love to doodle. ♥ need more pocket money. 很缺钱！ ♥ if i'm lucky i can be super lucky, but when i'm unlucky, i can be ultra unlucky. ♥ scared of wax figures. (probably except those celebs one in hongkong) ♥ will feel giddy if i sit in the front seat of the car. ♥ very sentimental towards things ，超级念旧， 不管是人，事，物！ ♥ used to feel giddy when i watch movie in cinema, now not anymore. ♥ my grades really goes according to how much i like the teacher. erm... like i'll score better for those subjects which tutors i like better.
Wednesday, October 08, 2008 觉得薛凯琪很幸运。每次她跟大同合唱的时候，都是大同在帮她和音。他的和音真的是又高难度又精准。而且，他每次都帮她写很赞的歌。 They simply got the chemistry everytime I hear them... Lovely!
在四人游，复刻回忆后， 听听这首翻唱合作吧。。
She sounded like a happy little girl! ^^ Khalil is just as amazing as forever... 实力派就是实力派，你来开演唱会吧，我可以买下十张票。。。 哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈。。。还会带着小亦去喔。。
Sunday, October 05, 2008 It is only this week I realised that my 19th birthday this may's photos are all gone due to my stupid comp crash in June. This year's birthday is one of my best birthday. I only manage to retrieve a few resized ones from photobucket. I think you guys will still have the ones we celebrated together at cafe cartel. Send me okay?
But the ones taken at loyang with lishean, the ones at korea bbq with my family and the ones cutting cake at home are all gone. I'm left is those shrinked and edited ones. SO SAD. T-T
Not only my birthday photos, those photos with the loyang kids, my khalil's photos, my sister's wedding day photo (yup, mentioning that again), my previous japan trips' photo, my sec school prom photos and all those green days' photo during secondary school are all gone. Maybe they're still there here at there in my sister comps and with friends, but still... u get what i mean. Surprisingly, all my photos with CCS are there cos I have softcopy of that. PHEW.
That's the prob... of digital cameras.. With digi cams, we'll never thought of developing our photos, and when our comp dies, all of those stuffs will be gone too... Maybe that's why my dad always insist on developing photos...
I think I have phobia already, now I dun even bear to delete photos from my digi cameras. But of course, 有些记忆是不用用照片维持的。
